twg 寫道:
Hi SandraLo
I've tried your method, seems that he's better these days
he's really attention seeking becoz I found that in these days, he's having his christmas holiday and so I took my annual leave to look after him, he seldom lost temper and every time when he wants to, he would told me and I give him a hug first, then he would be better and no chance to lost temper
thanks for your advice
I'll try my best to help him to control his temper
although he will still lost temper, but I realize that he is improving
tramtram 寫道:
hi SandraLo
我個女有咁狀況可否分析下. (thank you)
我個女3歲8個月, 由12尾一個禮拜有三, 兩日半夜發夢 (有時係醒醒地, 會同我地對答, 不過, 佢係發晒 "皮四" 又大喊") 又要即時出街買野食, 又唔要d樣果樣, 有時又話想大便又痾唔出, 好 "褸計"大聲喊, 頭頭我地以為佢唔舒服, 近幾次發覺佢都係想 "褸計" 多d (平均攪成個鐘, 佢見可以訓返) 琴日, 連末訓都好似發夢咁大喊叫我即刻落街買果汁, 一出門口即笑, 我地係唔係已經中左佢計, 知道好似半夜咁"褸"實掂, ? 請指教
tramtram 寫道:
hi SandraLo
1. 佢多數係半夜 2-4 點, 原因 (a) 有時係佢自已叫要小便後就醒醒地 (b) 發惡夢要d樣要果樣開始 (c) 佢有時話d到痕果到痕 (有時是真的, 因佢好易皮膚敏感)
2. 好彩佢係返下午班, 就算喊完再訓返, 精神都 ok, 不過, 有黑眼圈. (反為, 我, 老公, 工人就係最傷)
3. 佢無份星期幾都會係咁.
4. 佢好鐘意返學, 又好聽老師話.
5. 佢平時都有飲果汁 & 吃小食 (糖...)
其實近兩次真係好明顯扭計, 好似星期五半夜又黎, 發晒癲晒話要我地唔要佢架單車 (架單車佢愛最心愛玩具, 我地都覺得好怪, 之後, 就話好...明天先唔要啦, 之後 tim 下佢, 佢就訓返) 咁琴日, 我問佢掂解唔要單車, 佢話要買過架 hello kitty 單車, 咁唔要而家d架 (咁好明確係佢想換單車).
另外, 真係頭一兩次我地以為佢發惡夢 & 唔舒服, 全家都好緊張會好 "就" 佢, 咁就入左佢圈套.
而家, 我的方法係 (1) 日頭我地唔會理佢. (2) 半夜如果佢一開始發癲, 我地講少d, 只係答好...好, 盡量少激起情緒, 如果佢真係發癲, 老公叫我同工人唔好理佢 (我地兩個比較心軟) 老公唔會"就"佢等佢自已扭計, 直至佢自已倦, 然後再訓返. (妳話咁岩唔岩呀 ? 請指教) thank you
Tora 寫道:
囡囡就嚟三歲, 有時扭抱唔肯行, 有時扭要食餅餅, 總之一唔聽佢, 佢係條街放聲大哭我最多行埋一邊, 由得佢... 但如果剛係車廂, 我又唔想就佢, 但佢又喊到控制唔到, 咁可以點做??