May be your kids are still infante and they occupy you the whole day. My children are 8 and 7. They sleep at 9:00. 9:00 to 1:00am are our free time. We go "Siu Yeh" "Tong Shui" , or a nice walk in Temple st. Kowloon park....
I can play Mahjohn or a drink with friends whenever I like. (but I control myself once a week only). I do think brothers can enjoy your new lifes when your babies grow up.
A new comer like me who do not familar the mechanism here. The about post is actually refer to the topic. "各位爸爸有幾多私人時間?" Sorry for opening a new thread.