I am also living with 62 (99 not here la), but my situation is not that bad as you. But I have similar feeling with you that I want to have some privacy.
I fully understood your feeling, but nothing we can help here.
You should try to talk to your hubby (be sure you are 100% calm down), but please don't compliant.
I can see your hubby really love u, and he just ask you to be patient to wait, then you will have a better future.