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工人黎咗我屋企四個幾月了, 到目前為止都仲係踢幾腳先郁一腳. 開頭黎咗一個月後我覺得佢身邊既朋友教咗佢練精學懶, 原本好純好乖, 到我發現佢講大話, 明明冇做就話日頭做咗, 叫佢日日執既野, 佢可能要我發現到佢先死死地去執 (但仲要講佢日日都有執喎...), 日頭喺個cam一定唔見人...唉...但我最頂唔順既係...

1) 唔理我講咗d咩, 佢一定答 yes, mom. 如果係d我認為比較複雜既野, 我實佢repeat一次, 講就冇錯, 做就錯哂, 次序調亂/做少咗d次序, 直頭冇做當有做..同我講done....

2) 如上, 答咗我yes之後 (其實佢冇講到我講野, 我覺得係求其答咗先, 攪到有野佢係完全冇做, 但後尾佢話我冇講過

3) 好聲叫佢寫低唔記得既野, 佢話唔駛, 佢記得, end up ....當然係唔記得, 話佢點解唔寫低, 俾一灘眼淚你, 唉....

我都想喊

4) 叫親佢做快d, 佢都仲係慢慢黎, 朝朝早個囡都非常趕咁洗面食早餐著校服, 點解唔可以做快d? 個囡有時頂唔順自己去咗著服, 著好坐咗喺度等佢(佢要拎自己野...) 叫佢早d預備好自己既野, 佢話唔駛:;pppp:

........仲有好多好多....佢好似罷明做唔哂既野可以留聽日做咁, 但我有次好硬咁同佢講, 做哂我定喺時間表既野先可以去休息, 佢就扮個慘樣出黎!!!

係咪我要求高呢............唉....返工湊女昅佢....好攰

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I think it's just about the quality of the maid....not about our expectation. If we don't need their help, why we spend money to teach them? Sometimes even we treat them good by heart and teach them, give them time to adjust, they just NEVER thank you. The more bad things they learn, the more 'throw up blood' the employers will be. May be we should say, over 95% of the maids don't have the heart to work....just give you 'surface quality'.......like if we work like this in HK, got kicked for ages. I can just never understand them. If they don't want to work, why bother to come to HK to apply for such a job.

Seems like if a maid 'does not steal', she can be claimed as 'good' already.......Tell lies or steals seems to be their 'normal standard'..........that's really ridiculous!!

Now i'm not daring to hire a maid, even I need one....aiiiiiiiiiiii...

原帖由 noproblemom 於 10-12-20 11:14 發表
工人黎咗我屋企四個幾月了, 到目前為止都仲係踢幾腳先郁一腳. 開頭黎咗一個月後我覺得佢身邊既朋友教咗佢練精學懶, 原本好純好乖, 到我發現佢講大話, 明明冇做就話日頭做咗, 叫佢日日執既野, 佢可能要我發現到佢先死 ...

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我都有諗D工人做到表面功夫,唔黑面,就係叫好? 我個印印做左幾個月後現形, 佢叫可以煮到2餐,清潔表面功夫,抹窗唔check佢,明明好dirty.佢話抹左,叫佢再抹都有抹番,廁所好多日有尿味,問佢有冇用布抹,死都話有,我話抹左冇可能有味,熨衫儲埋星期日才熨,唔理我地星期中要唔要著,洗衫要滿到爆先開機,星期日訓到8點幾起身,我地末起身,佢唔會做任何野,每朝唔刷牙洗臉,佢用客廁,聽唔到用水聲,婆婆遲佢起身發覺所有野係乾,我星期日起身後check 佢漱口杯及牙刷等,全部係乾,似冇用好耐,唔怪得佢成日口臭,問佢又死都話有.

要成日check住佢,提佢做,好辛苦,除左基本野,真係唔知而家D工人質素,咁樣係己經叫正常?不過我多數出年唔會renew佢.

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完全同意呀.....

原帖由 cutiebee 於 10-12-20 11:32 發表
I think it's just about the quality of the maid....not about our expectation. If we don't need their help, why we spend money to teach them? Sometimes even we treat them good by heart and teach them ...

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我發覺所有工人都有"老人痴呆"
我果個都係, 講完既野好快唔記得, 要提提提, 不過我工人好處係真係好鍚我阿B, 同幾勤力, 會自動波朝早6點起身直到夜既10點幾先瞓。

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我件賓(來了兩星期)都一樣, 第二日已經被我發現唔跟我指示自把自為,成日唔記得要做的daily task..我比張checklist佢tick, 佢就tick些無tick些, 咁我想最初可能唔慣做唔切..所以無出聲, 但第二個星期發現明明無做都tick,我就why佢, 佢伸要死頂話tick錯之前一日的空格(即今天的無做,其實係tick昨日的task), 我話之前一日佢係rest day,更加唔會做啦...我當場同佢講佢咁樣係想破壞我的信心和我們的關係..這是不誠實..跟住叫佢明天補番..總之就工人質素愈來愈差..現在真的來數天便已經夠膽唔聽話, 試你底線.所以真係要check實..
我比簿仔佢記東西, 有次叫佢寫低, 佢話唔駛, 我唔理, 叫佢立即寫, 表明我想佢寫.佢只好死死氣寫..總之每次我話佢都唔係惡, 無大聲.但擺明態度好firm, 無得改.我都唔知佢可以捱多久便原形畢露唔理我..但點都好..我唔會炒佢(除非大錯),最多使佢頂唔順自己走(其實賓賓知你唔炒佢, 但又勁多野做, 多數都會自己走).我當然希望勉強捱埋兩年..呢件先比多千幾保險過來, 再請要再比..唉...>_<

我反而覺得係現在的僱主要求愈來愈低就真...我覺得早期的僱主真係有主僕之分...邊得佢地咁惡.

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發表於 10-12-21 01:19 |只看該作者

原帖由 cutiebee 於 10-12-20 11:32 發表
I think it's just about the quality of the maid....not about our expectation. If we don't need their help, why we spend money to teach them? Sometimes even we treat them good by heart and teach them ...

agreed!

至於我和我家，我們必定事奉耶和華。（書２４：１５）

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原帖由 noproblemom 於 10-12-20 11:14 發表
工人黎咗我屋企四個幾月了, 到目前為止都仲係踢幾腳先郁一腳. 開頭黎咗一個月後我覺得佢身邊既朋友教咗佢練精學懶, 原本好純好乖, 到我發現佢講大話, 明明冇做就話日頭做咗, 叫佢日日執既野, 佢可能要我發現到佢先死 ...

same as mine........i think its their style....cannot be changed if we hire a indo maid..

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想嘗試去改變佢哋, 先要改變自己, 以前果d工人, 都叫惷惷地, 做嘢比心機; 而家果d擺明係惷, 又要學人講大話, 練精學懶同佢哋做嘢唔上心
之前果d, 唔同佢講, 都自己寫低; 而家果d比埋本簿, 都要捉住只手, 發哂脾氣, 至係你面前寫吓, 咁當然唔方佢哋會睇添啦
樣樣有乜就yes咗先, 呢d無可能怪佢, 肯定就學校教嚟應付咗我哋先啦, 所以佢yes得, 通常都係唔明架

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多謝咁多位回覆...

救命呀! 好似二樓咁講, 唔偷就已經叫做好工人, 講大話或偷野叫做正常

如果真係九成以上都係咁既質素, 炒得幾多個? 我地只有越比越多既寃旺錢, 但我好fed up囉, 好似耐佢唔何咁!

今日又係...逄星期一至五朝早返學前都要量體溫, 今日要個囡提佢唔記得 "du du"佢先省起要量...my god .....唔記得量返到學校門口又要比老師留難...

唔知係咪呢個禮拜有得放兩日既關係 (25-26), 原本已經離瑴既靈魂更加打得7離8散...

我唔明點解佢地唔 up to standard 都仲要補一個月炒佢囉!

昨晚叫佢批兩個梨, 我知佢會攪好耐, 我已經先預備定一碗塩水比佢可以浸住d水果 (應該係佢做既!), 唔駛生锈, 見住佢拎野出黎, 跟住我出去等咗20分鐘.....再多10分鐘, 都未出番黎, 入去廚房, omg, 大大個既黃金梨比佢批走咗1/3既果肉, 但仲未批完, 真係火都黎埋, 用刀唔係批得好, 點解唔用批瓜既刀黎批呢? 見到個梨好肉赤, 但我都冇等了, 再等要入房瞓了, 最尾我用咗3分鐘批哂剩餘既梨+1個新梨, 再批開細件批埋個果心........

唉....原來洗錢請工人係比佢喺度磨時間....

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我都曾經多次問自己呢個問題,是否自己要求高,看到工人的工作表現及態度,事事不達要求甚至標準,每日做同一樣既嘢竟然都會錯漏,教完又唔記住，清潔求其做完做咗等於無做一樣,煮飯又話唔識煮中國菜但教佢又唔俾心機學,煮出嚟簡直覺得浪費了食物,但依家d工人好似同出一徹,根本就好似迫我們無奈接受!

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發表於 10-12-21 11:40 |只看該作者

係!...我只有一至五我地要返工既日子叫佢煮一餐晚飯, 煮黎煮去都係果幾樣, 其實食到厭, 但佢煮咗4個幾月都仲係咁, 有時d菜生到咬唔到落去, 要番兜炒過先得, d味煮咗9萬幾次都係有時超鹹有時冇味, 有時會突然唔記得落蒜蓉, 日日都係做果幾廿樣野, 照樣唔記得, 話佢就唔出聲, 隔一日或者日日提....

唉...老公反而話, 算啦, 我反而覺得你日日話佢, 佢都唔發癲鬧番你或者發爛咋, EQ 算唔錯啦, 即係我要更加train自己比佢 EQ再高...

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我發覺對佢地好係無用既. 我前個月啱啱請左呢个新肥野返來,因舊个滿約回老家. 我忍咗2个礼拜就出咗封信比佢, 內容大概如下:
1. follow the house rules and tasks with checks.
2. If your boss asked you to do something, don't reply "I am busy" or "I was busy so I did not do such things...blah blah blah"
3. Please eliminate "I don't know". If you don't know, take action and find the answer.
4. Please eliminate "I forgot", if you tended to be forgetful, this position is not suitable for you.

上個月出糧我用紙巾抹屋一个圈,我認真地同佢講:
see how dirty the home is, and I would not border to ask for explanation anymore. Explanation means Excuses. And I know you will tell me you are busy, even though you have nothing to do except cooking and washing the clothes with the washing machines.

Go back to your home country, and you will have 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to relax and sing. No more busy!

呢d人要好firm 甘嚇佢, 比佢知自己係工人, 唔係來嘆世界.

原帖由 noproblemom 於 10-12-21 11:40 發表
係!...我只有一至五我地要返工既日子叫佢煮一餐晚飯, 煮黎煮去都係果幾樣, 其實食到厭, 但佢煮咗4個幾月都仲係咁, 有時d菜生到咬唔到落去, 要番兜炒過先得, d味煮咗9萬幾次都係有時超鹹有時冇味, 有時會突然唔記得落 ...

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回覆 14# florriehill 的文章

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咁妳咁講完佢有冇改善呀?

原帖由 florriehill 於 10-12-22 15:28 發表
我發覺對佢地好係無用既. 我前個月啱啱請左呢个新肥野返來,因舊个滿約回老家. 我忍咗2个礼拜就出咗封信比佢, 內容大概如下:
1. follow the house rules and tasks with checks.
2. If your boss asked you to do som ...

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回覆 6# loloco@henry 的文章

同感~~我個姐姐唯一好處係--錫bb~~所以我先容忍佢直到依家 9 個月喇~

但其他方面~~佢絕對唔係一個 good maid~~無記性到唔知點形容...sigh >.<"

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原帖由 noproblemom 於 10-12-21 11:28 發表
多謝咁多位回覆...

救命呀! 好似二樓咁講, 唔偷就已經叫做好工人, 講大話或偷野叫做正常

如果真係九成以上都係咁既質素, 炒得幾多個? 我地只有越比越多既寃旺錢, 但我好fed up囉, 好似耐佢唔何咁!

今日 ...

超有同感~~我果件又係~~叫佢批兩個梨~~20分鐘都未食得呀~~陰公

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原帖由 noproblemom 於 10-12-21 11:40 發表
係!...我只有一至五我地要返工既日子叫佢煮一餐晚飯, 煮黎煮去都係果幾樣, 其實食到厭, 但佢煮咗4個幾月都仲係咁, 有時d菜生到咬唔到落去, 要番兜炒過先得, d味煮咗9萬幾次都係有時超鹹有時冇味, 有時會突然唔記得落 ...

唉...老公反而話, 算啦, 我反而覺得你日日話佢, 佢都唔發癲鬧番你或者發爛咋, EQ 算唔錯啦, 即係我要更加train自己比佢 EQ再高...

好似都幾有道理------歪理

佢做好份工,咪冇人話囉

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