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Baby Kingdom - 親子王國香港討論區 › 首頁 › 婆媳關係› 你地會點形容同老爺奶奶的關係?

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99=歧視我,唔鐘意我會對我不聞不問,我講一句野,佢可以話我大話精及亂估野就擋真

,又唔會問人咩事,自己會記係心到嬲你一世咁

,我都唔知發生咩事!

(小氣到死,小事變大事,唔問人咩事,亂估一通作故,攪到關係誤會晒)

62=份人冇咩野,鍾意搵

不問世事!

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回覆：你地會點形容同老爺奶奶的關係?

同奶奶關係好好，每年同老公去四五次旅行有一半都預埋佢，好容易相處，唯獨是佢係一個好慳既人，而我係大洗慣既人，所以同佢去旅行就轉坐economy。

同老爺的關係一般，婚前七年佢對我不揪不睬，見面唔同我說話，原因係當年我老公為了我而唔移民。不過，一話佢知我地要結婚，佢即刻變咗好多，對我好好，每次佢加拿大回來／走，佢都會攬住我錫我(反而唔會咁樣對佢個女），但結婚六年，佢久唔久就會提出幫我地搞移民，又要我搬去新界，我唔喜歡佢大男人想話事，成日想操控我地，不過好彩我唔係弱女，佢亦知我好有主見，我唔會同佢硬碰硬，我唔鐘意聽就會唔講嘢，佢感覺佢有少少怕我，佢唯有向我老公出手，好在我老公錫我，會幫口。我老爺知我做department head, 人工高，但我都決定做ftm，佢唔like，成日話我讀咁多書浪費了，又問我幾時出返去打工，我上年終於忍唔住好強硬咁講＂我都話唔做咯＂，自此之後佢冇再問我。我唔係佢老婆女兒，唔係佢想點就點，我平時盡可能客客氣氣，佢對我好係希望可以軟化我，跟住操控我一家，就好似佢操控佢老婆仔女一樣，我會尊重佢係我老爺，但一越權我就會say no。

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SweetyMuiMui 發表於 12-1-26 09:31
同奶奶關係好好，每年同老公去四五次旅行有一半都預埋佢，好容易相處，唯獨是佢係一個好慳既人，而我係大洗 ...

My 9962 is very much like your 62, is a control freak, likes to control us. And I don't like this, so they don't like me, no matter how much I have done to them. I think if you love your children, you should give them 'choice'. My c6 was already controlled by them and his study & career became worse (because c6 didn't like the study/career his parents chosen for him). C6's youngest brother and his family are controlled by 9962, 9962 give them lots of money and big house.
Although I don't have much money, I'm so blessed to have freedom.

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